Four Memories I'd Never Put in the Same Sentence
Written down, my scattered memories turned out to be one story. Here's why that matters for any business, and the free story bank template I use.
May 2024. I quit my corporate job, sold 90% of my shit, and moved my family to Kazakhstan.
Jan 13, 2025. 3:05pm. Almaty. I screenshotted my bank account. $894.26.
Feb 11, 2025. My first Upwork offer. $250, minus the fee. $225.
October 2026. Next week's calendar: 59 posts across 8 platforms.
For a long time those lived in four different places. An essay. A photo roll. An app. My head.
Written down on the same page, they're one story.
In my head they were separate
The move was a fear story. I kept asking if it was too late. Too late to move with a newborn, too late to walk away from a decent salary.
The bank balance was a screenshot I took for myself.
The $225 was a good night.
The 59 posts were a busy week.
None of them felt like a story worth telling on its own. Side by side, they are: the move I was scared of, what it cost, the first sign it was working, and where it went.
Why I write them down
A memory in your head is a feeling. You can't hand it to anyone.
On a page it gets a date, a place, a number and your own words. It becomes something you can look at, share, and connect to the next thing. That's the whole point of writing it down. It makes the story real.
So I keep a story bank. One page per story, same shape every time. What happened. My words. What it proves. What I still don't know. And what it connects to.
That last line is where the good stuff shows up.
Why this is a business thing
My whole agency runs on one belief: Share Stories People Feel.
I make brand films. Your One True Story, On Film. But that only matters to a business owner who believes their customers need to Feel It Before They Buy It.
They do. A story humanizes the business. People buy from people.
I see it on my own calls. When I ask clients why they jumped on a call, answered my email, or chose to work with me, they all say some version of the same thing: "we want to tell our story."
And the person they're buying from lives in your stories. The move, the low point, the first yes. If you can't find those when a post, a cold email or a sales call needs one, you reach for a line about "quality" and "passion" instead. Nobody feels that.
The template
Steal it. One page per story:
# [Story name]
Source: where it came from and when.
## What happened
Told straight.
## In my words
The raw version.
## What it proves
The one belief this story stands for.
## Open questions
What you don't know yet.
## Connects to
Other stories this one leads to or echoes.
## Comfort line
What goes where. Who never gets named.
Plus one index page with the story name, a one-line hook and its themes.
Your turn
Write down the story you tell most often out loud. The one that comes out when somebody asks how you started.
Then ask what it connects to.
Here's to your next story, George